Is honesty always the best policy? Everyone, especially women, say they want their partner to be honest. It sounds reasonable. I mean, you can’t establish a relationship based on lies, right? But can you keep a good relationship going if you are telling the truth all the time? The fact is… No. Both men and women lie to some extent; it’s no surprise. They just go about it differently and sometimes, for different reasons.

Take this scenario for instance. Imagine you and your girlfriend have been together for a while and now it’s time; it seemed like a lifetime of waiting on your part, but finally, your first time together. It should be special; it should be memorable. You’re both a little nervous, however, a little anxious. She starts to feel self-conscious so she asks you “Honey, do you think my butt is too big?” Hmm… how to answer? Yes, it’s big but you like it big. So that’s what you decide to tell her. She’s even more self-conscious now as the night wears on, but not wanting to ruin the moment, she sets it aside. You start kissing again and the clothing starts to come off. You make a joke about… the size of your penis. What you were expecting to hear was “size doesn’t really matter”. What you get instead is… stunned silence. Suddenly aware of this, thinking quickly she blurts out “it’s not how small you are, it’s the motion of the ocean… and my ex and I never had this problem”. Of course, what you hear is the word small and not only that but now you’re smaller than the ex. She’s probably wishing it was him now. Your confidence had just plummeted. Everything starts to crumble.

If someone was just to say a few little white lies, everything would’ve been great; the night would’ve been perfect. But now…… not so great.

So you see, the truth is, telling a few little lies from time to time can actually keep your relationship healthy and functioning. If you want to keep it going and keep the sex coming, you’re going to have to lie. The trick is figuring out when to lie and what she wants to hear.

Here are a few examples of when:

If she asks for a rundown of your sexual exploits or how your former lover was, never mention it. Never mention the contents of your sexual past… especially if it was a good one. Don’t say it was wonderful. Don’t say it was fun while it lasted. And don’t ever mention any of their names. Even if what you think you’re saying is uncomplimentary, it will still have a negative effect. Your new woman will constantly think of the last one you were with and it’s even worse if she knows her name. So don’t do it. If you want to save what you have with her, don’t do it. Tell her what’s important. Tell her what she needs to know. Everyone deserves the right to practice safe sex. But don’t give her a rundown of your exploits, please. NO details!

When it comes to how she looks, you have to make her feel good, make her feel like a woman, a goddess. Females are beautiful, sexy, and attractive creatures. If you let her know you find her attractive she will be more confident, wilder and more passionate. And when she asks you a question regarding something about her that you don’t really like, never, ever tell the truth. Just say that you think it’s OK and let the moment pass over. If you, for instance, want to share your opinion about the negative way in which she laughs, she will eventually stop laughing around you, become more inhibited and things will turn sour.

Most women are more caring, nurturing, and more sensitive than men. It’s nature. So pay attention and don’t make unnecessary remarks about other people in her life, especially anyone close to her. For example, even if you are fed up with all her crazy animals running around her apartment and want to toss all of them out the window, don’t mention how you hate pets. Instead, say how much you like all animals. Otherwise she will find you insensitive and uncaring and you will lose points. Use common sense and try not to hurt anyone’s feelings… even if you have to lie from time to time.

Overall, lying is bad, yes. But sometimes, you really have no other choice. The little white lies don’t really hurt anyone and can only enhance your relationship and make it better. It’s therefore OK to tell a person what they want to hear from time to time.

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